Luke’s crush.
Luke met a little girl in Okoboji at the playground. The next evening we
attended a meet and greet party at our resort. Sure enough his new friend
“Little jayden” was there. She is a very pretty little 5 year old and was
wearing a cute little dress. Luke spotted her and had to go say hi right away.
It was loud, music was playing for the dance and Luke wanted to just stand by
her and stare at her. A little later he told me he wanted to go ask her to
dance and wanted me to go with him. It felt like I was watching an 8th
grader at his first dance. He spotted her on the dance floor with her grandma
and went up to dance with her. They got a couple steps in when another little
boy about 6 grabbed her hands and started dancing with her. Luke didn’t seem too
bothered at first as he waited for the song to end so he could dance with her
the next song. The song ended and again the other boy took her hands and
danced. This went on and the frustration is Luke’s face grew each time until he
had had it and was holding back tears. This was all too much for me, I didn’t
know whether to laugh or feel sad for him. I knew the mom from visiting the
night before so for the sake of my little 4 year olds heart, I couldn’t stand
to watch his heart break so I talked to the mom. She told her daughter Luke
would like to dance with her. She was willing and they took hands and began to
dance. Come to find out, the other little boy, who I thought was a family
friend, was just some boy and the girls mom said this kind of thing happens
everywhere they go. The boys really like her daughter. So Luke danced two songs
and was so funny to watch. He just stared dreamily into her face and just held
her hands and moved his feet. It made
his night. He told me he was going to marry her. A few days later Luke was
walking with Mark mumbling to himself. Mark heard him saying” She probably won’t
marry me she will probably marry that other boy.” It is so adorable and yet blows my mind that a
4 year old would have such emotions for a little girl.
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